How to Win Over your Ideal Woman And Keep Her Happy
Wow! Isn't that the age old question. It has probably been asked millions of times over hundreds of years and there still isn't a definitive answer. Does any really have an answer? Probably not because no two women )or men for that matter) are exactly alike and there are no "one size fits all". techniques for keeping a woman happy.
But here are some general guidelines that do seem to work in most situations. Here is some advice for you men.
First and foremost, be yourself, never try to act as if you are some you're really not just because you think that what that particular woman is looking for. First of all, she'll see right through it, and second of all you simply can't keep up that kind of act forever. If you do end up in a relationship with a woman that you haven't been yourself with from the beginning, there's no easy way of going back to your true self and the relationship will end, abruptly. Personality plays a much bigger role in what a woman finds attractive than what a man finds attractive. Woman want maturity, confidence, stability. Men generally first look at physical beauty.
Try doing some little favors for her with no expectation that she now "owes" you. Things like taking he car in for maintenance, giving her a small gift, opening doors. Look for these little opportunities and be sure to take advantage of them whenever they come up. Sometimes men think in terms of the "grand gesture", when a series of small favors can have as much, or very likely, more of a long lasting impact on her feelings towards you.
While it's natural for men to look at other women they find attractive, don't make it obvious and definitely don't make comments on the attractiveness of other women when she is around. She'll naturally think that you're comparing her to the woman you're looking at, an rightly so because subconsciously, you are. Woman hate being compared because they have a natural biological drive for monogamy. Men are just the opposite. In an ideal world most men would like at least a physical relationship with a variety of woman. Women are looking for a lifetime partner with whom they can raise a family.
Bring out your sense of humor. if you aren't the funniest guy around, take some practice. Make an effort at finding ways to make her laugh. Observe how other guys seems to be able to make a woman laugh whenver they want and then model their style and behavoir. Don't simply copy. Adapt what you observe and make it your own. Women really enjoy being in the company of men who can make them laugh. Most men will list "good looks" at the top of their ideal woman list. Most women put "sense of humor" at number 1 or 2. If you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.
After you've started a relationship with a girl, don't think all the rules discussed here no longer apply. They do. Stay in shape, keep yourself well-groomed, keep her laughing, keep doing those small favors. In short, keep doing all the things you were doing to win her over in the first place. If you start to get sloppy about the little things that worked for you in winning her over, eventually the relationship will grow stale and a breakup is inevitable. You can "unland" her just as easily as you "landed" her.
Lastly, keep an open mind on trying new things and having new experiences together, few things can create a stronger bond between two people than sharing fun experiences. Avoid getting stuck in the rut of the "routine". Always be on the lookout to suggest something new. It will go a long way to keeping your relationship fresh and healthy.
So there you have it, several tidbits of advice on how to keep your dating life strong. Most of them are plain common sense. But men, you do have to be aware of the basic differences between what women want and what men want. If you don't adapt your style to these fundamental differences, you'll find it difficult to get very far in any relationshiop with a woman.
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